I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting on my life lately. As you probably know, my wife and I are having a baby, my dad is dying, and my birthday is coming up in a little over a month. All good reasons to spend time thinking about how I would have done my life differently.

Since I can’t have a do-over, I figure the next best thing is to pass on what I’ve learned to those of you who are just at the beginning of your improv careers. Hopefully, this advice will help you not repeat the same mistakes I did!

  1. You'll have to pay for coaches
    When I started out in improv I did not understand why I had to pay for a coaching after being put on a house team and paying for all those classes. I realize now that paying for coaches actually benefits you because they help you get better, so essentially you are investing in yourself. So drop the resentment and accept that paying for a coach is part of playing in the big leagues.
  1. It’s going to take a lot of years to get good
    Had I known how long it would have taken to get good at improv, I probably would not even tried this improv thing in the first place. I was impatient and entitled, I wish to God somebody would have said to me, “Sure, you are funny, but this a craft, and if you want to get good at it, you are going to have to put in hard work.”
  1. Get used to disappointments
    Yep, you’re going to be disappointed. Over and over again. Nobody told me this. I thought it was going to be a straight shot to the top, whatever that meant. How wrong I was. No matter how good someone is at anything, they have to deal with rejection, lot and lots of it. So get used to it.
  1. Everyone has one his own path
    This may not seem relevant now, but one day, one of your friends who you started out in classes with will get a huge opportunity and you will be like “What about me?” Even if you started out in the same class or are just as good as an improviser as your friend, it doesn't matter. We all are on different paths. I know it sucks, but it's even more true today than it was when I was starting out. You never know how people are going to make it.
  1. Just do good work is a lie
    Actors and improvisers think good work alone will get them ahead. That is a myth written for lazy people. Just because you can do a great improv scene doesn’t mean you’ll become famous. You have to always be marketing yourself or your shows if you want to be “magically” be discovered.
  1. You’re not as good as your think you are
    What attitude I had when I first started out! I was young and full of myself. Had someone pulled me aside and said, “Look, you’re not as good as you think you are,” I probably would have gotten even better more quickly and not been so insufferable to be around.
  1. Be nice to everyone
    I have written about this before, and the older I get, the more regret not being nice to everyone in the improv community early in my career. So drop the attitude and be nice to people — even the ones who you think are un-talented or not cool — because you never know where they are going end up.
  1. If life is not fair, the entertainment business is even worse
    Nothing makes sense in the acting, improv and comedy world. People will get opportunities that you are convinced they don't deserved. You will kill it in an audition and they will give the part to someone else for a million different reasons that have nothing to do with your talent. Ninety percent of the time it will come down to looks. Get used to it. Nobody owes you anything and nothing makes any sense.
  1. Write more
    Writing makes you a better improviser, helps you become more creative and actually can lead to a paying job as writer. I wish was not so stupid to think all I needed to do was improvise. I would have loved to have written more sketches, done stand up, submitted packages for late night talk shows and more.
  1. Network
    When I first started out in improv, people made fun of me because I was a "schmoozer," but I actually think my innate ability to talk to people was good for me. Then I stopped networking because I stopped drinking and began isolating in my apartment. Today, I regret not continuing to network, because now I know that building relationships is the glue of successful career.
  1. Love the process, let go of the results
    This is a hard lesson that I’m still learning. When I started out, I Ioved just taking an improv class or rehearsing. It was so much fun. What I loved was the process. Who cares how the show did? It was fun just to create it. With success and age came expectations, and then it was all about the results. I had my hands on improv’s neck, and I was either going to snap it or kill it. Today I know you have to learn to love the process and trust that the results will take care of themselves.
  1. Take care of yourself
    Improv can be such a destructive culture at times. People getting drunk, doing drugs, and sleeping around can seem like the norm. That was part of the reason I was attracted to it — the dysfunction. I wish somebody would have said, “For God’s sake, man, take care of yourself!”
  1. Take an acting class
    That is right. As fun as improv is, it can be a cult, and if you’re not careful, you can get stuck in it and wake up 25 years from now wonder what happened to you (a true story about me). Trust me, acting class will prepare you for acting jobs that have the potential to pay a whole lot more than improv.

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If you’re an improv teacher, you’re probably familiar with the concept of side coaching, where you make subtle comments to your students while they are doing a scene to give them some direction. The concept of side coaching is to help your student see something they can’t see in the moment.

Sounds easy, right? But in fact, doing it well can be tricky. Side coaching is not an exact science, but it is a skill that can be learned, and the best way I have learned is through trial and error.

Here are a few other tips that I have learned over the years that will help you give more effective feedback. See more tips from Jay Sukow, an improv teacher in Los Angeles, below:

  1. One size does not fit all
    Remember, what works for one person may not work for the rest. Students all learn differently and some have more experience than others. Take this into consideration. I’ve had students who could not be heard on stage and my side coaching for the whole term has been to “share your voice with us” until they could be louder. Until they could be heard on stage, everything else is pointless. Once they master this, then you can move on.

    At the same time, a more advanced player may need to be working on going deeper in their scene work or working on emotions. Get to know your students and realize when it comes to side coaching one size does not fit all.

  2. Remember You’re Not Always Right
    Sometimes when I am side coaching during a scene, it will put students in their heads. You can see it their face; they just look confused and then they shut down. When that happens, you just have to let it go, admit your comment did not work and move on. In my experience, 70 percent of my comments are right on the mark and 30 percent are off the mark. This can be tough on your ego, but by admitting that you’re not always right and letting it go, you are teaching your students by example about humility -- something that is necessary in this work and life.
  3. Make one-word comments
    When it comes to saying the perfect comment when you’re side coaching, less is more. I have found that boiling your thoughts down to one word -- preferably an action word like "attack," "heighten" or "pounce," or a phrase like "find the agreement" or "do less" – is the most effective tool for side coaching.

Side Coaching Tips from Jay Sukow

The two notes I give most often when side coaching: say yes and like each other. Those two will help any scene succeed.

Here are a couple of other tips:

  1. Set expectations
    Set expectations at the top of the class to let your students know what’s happening. Some may not even know what side coaching is. You can say something like, “I’ll be doing a little side coaching. Think of me as a voice in your head. But don’t break the reality of the scene to check in with me. Stay with your scene partner.”
  1. Decide what results you’re looking for
    Before you make a comment, think about what you are trying to achieve. Give clear, simple direction as to what you want to see. Do you want to push your students to take bigger risks? To become more active? And most importantly, do they even need your help? Or are you side coaching for your own ego?
  1. Don’t direct the scene
    Avoid being too heavy handed or directing the scene. I rarely side coach at the beginning of the scene, unless it’s to remind them to say yes or like each other. Remember: It’s not your scene. What are they trying to achieve? Guide them toward that. I’ll say things like “more” or “stay active” or “follow your body” or “and” or “you’re not angry with them.”

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Let me tell you something that drives me nuts. A person does improv for five or six years and starts getting good at, gets on Harold team, maybe two, and he is killing it.

Naturally, he wants more from his the career, which means he would like to get paid. So he saves up enough money to get headshots. Then he gets agent who sends him on a ton of auditions and he sucks at them. He sucks at reading from a script, he sucks at auditioning.

Then one of his smart-ass friends suggests taking an on-camera class and the improviser balks: "I am on a house team at one of the biggest improv theaters in country. I don’t need to take another class."

He doesn’t know it, but he has just put his film, TV and commercial career on hold. Out of arrogance. Out of pride.

What this really talented improviser doesn't realize is that cold reading and auditioning is a skill, something that needs to be learned, like improv. By stopping learning, he is killing any chance of taking his career to the next level.

I cannot tell you how many people I have known, including myself, who used to think like this.

This happens in the acting world as well. I have seen accomplished actors come out of the audition room with flop sweat and all the color gone from their face complaining, "Man, that was rough. They asked me to improvise." Yet, they never take an improv class. Why?

Just like many improvisers, actors often don’t realize that even if they’ve worked in some of the best theaters in town, the credits don't transfer. Just because you have mastered one medium does not mean that you will automatically master another one. Most likely, it will take less time to learn a new skill because of your prior experience, but it will not happen overnight. Remember you’re learning something related but essentially you are learning something new, and that takes time. Just remember how long it took you to grasp acting or improv.

Several years ago I was in an on-camera class with one of my favorite all-time teachers, Jane Alderman. We had an actor in our class who was in the touring company of Wicked when it was playing for a long run in Chicago. The guy had a big part in it and he was taking an on-camera class on his off night. I knew this guy must be from NY or LA because Chicago actors and improvisers don't think like that. Even though he was in big touring company of Broadway show, he knew that if he wanted to go into TV and film he had to learn some new skills. He wasn’t arrogant enough to think that his part in Wicked would be enough. He was one of the smart ones.

I have friend out in LA who has been quite successful in commercials, TV and film, and you know what? He is always studying and taking classes and working with an on-camera coach when he gets a big audition. Sometimes when he takes a class he will say, “Do you remember so-and-so who was on that network show for six seasons? That guy is in my scene study class.” I love hearing that because I think most of us think once you are on a national TV show you are done learning.

As actors and improvisers, the only thing we have control over is our ability to keep developing our talents, to keep learning new things. The best way I know how to do that is by taking classes. I not only find it fun, but it’s also a great way to meet people and even network.

I try to take this advice myself. Even though I’m a big-time improv teacher with more than 30 years improvising experience, last year I took a stand-up comedy class. I was by far the oldest person in the class by 20 years. Nobody knew my reputation as an improv teacher. I had a ball. And let me tell you, it had a direct impact on my improvising and my teaching. I can’t tell how it did, it just did.

As you read this, my wish for you is to always be learning something new.

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Years ago when I first started teaching corporate improv workshops, other improvisers would give me crap saying I was selling out. Wow, have times changed. Today, corporate improv workshops are more popular than ever. And guess what? I still love teaching them, because I believe the concepts of improv are not just great on stage, but they can be truly life-changing philosophies as well.

Recently, I was interviewed by Jody Michael and Associates, a career coaching and organizational coaching company, about how to use improv to improve leadership skills. But of course, improv can help improve lots of other aspects of a corporation, as well.

If you’re in the corporate world and you’ve heard about improv workshops, you might be interested in knowing exactly how your company could benefit from one. Here’s what I think are the biggest benefits that corporations can get out of hosting an improv workshop:

1. Building trust
Too often in companies, people have work together, but because of office politics, personality conflicts and meetings behind closed doors, there is often not a lot of trust among co-workers. Just think how much more productive, and yes, profitable, companies would be if there were more trust in their organization.

When I teach corporate improv workshops, I build trust through play, which is a hard concept for some result-oriented people in corporate America to understand. I structure my corporate workshop with games and exercises that are solely designed with having fun in mind.

Giving the participants permission to be silly and to laugh without worrying about what they’re supposed to be learning is the secret ingredient in building trust. The sure sign that this is being accomplished is when their laughter fills the room. Laughter is the by-product of building trust.

2. Listening
I cannot tell you how many times some big, Type-A sales rep will come up to me before a corporate workshop and say, "I am a great listener. I don't need help on listening." Then we play an improv game and he won't shut up, or worse, he tries to control how he thinks the game is supposed to go.

Listening is an attitude. It’s about letting go of control and responding and building off the last thing that was said by your partner. We all need to work on listening, including me, the guy teaching the workshop. It’s muscle, a skill that needs to be developed. I have very rarely meet someone who is a natural listener.

In improv, we learn that real listening comes when we suspend judgement and have the courage to throw away the script in our head. Instead of rehearsing to yourself in your head what you're going to say as your boss drones on and on about something, instead you can learn to truly listen in the moment and react to the last thing that was said.

3. Yes, and…
Once a corporation works on building trust and teaching people how to listen, then they’re ready to learn the improv concept of “Yes, and…,” which means that they can take an idea that someone else has offered and build off of it. In the fear-based culture of some companies, the thought of saying “Yes, and…” to Larry's idea about payroll and adding something to it, instead of shutting him down, is revolutionary. This is a powerful tool that can change the culture of a company and can generate ideas and solutions beyond everyone’s imagination.

Instead of thinking about ways that every idea won’t work, employees are encouraged to find ways to be supportive of one another. If employees learned to say “Yes, and...” 40 percent more often after taking an improv workshop, just think what that could do to change a company’s culture and productivity. Nothing makes me happier than when I hear from a client after a workshop who says, “Hey, we used that “Yes, and…” concept in a brain-storming session recently and it really worked.”

4. You can learn about your organization through improv
What I am the most proud of in my improv training is that through the games and exercises I teach, corporations can identify bigger issues in their organization that need to be talked about and open up discussions about them that lead to solutions.

I have seen high-level managers admit in improv workshops that they take on too much responsibility because they didn’t trust their team, or sales reps who catch themselves telling people what to do in improv game because that’s how they think they should lead. One time, a CEO who had organized a training showed up late to it and the rest of the group felt uncomfortable about proceeding without him, which turned out to be a great gift he gave that workshop. In the right hands, improv workshops have the power to correct some of these issues hidden in an organization that get in the way of the company being the best it can be.

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There has been a lot of discussion in improv lately about classes where students (women in particular) don’t feel safe. And many people who teach improv are now thinking about what the best way is to handle these kinds of situations in class.

Recently, Jay Sukow, who teaches improv classes in Los Angeles, received a question from another improv teacher about how to handle situations in class that make people feel uncomfortable, and Jay asked me if I would chime in with my advice as well.

Q: What do instructors need to keep in mind/be aware of/do that will help avoid students being uncomfortable or harassed in class and help students who are doing things that harass or make others uncomfortable recognize that and correct it?

Jimmy Carrane: I think the most important thing is to create an environment where people feel safe and feel that they have a voice, where if something happens, and believe me, it will, that they are comfortable discussing it in class.

I don’t believe that making people feel comfortable comes by stopping people from saying certain things. It’s about having a discussion about how students are feeling about any given situation in a class.

I accomplish this in my classes by encouraging my students to speak their process. On the first day of class, I set the tone by going over a couple boundaries for the class. I tell them that if things come up for them, they can speak their feelings around it. If they feel angry or shame or “in their head,” or if my side coaching did not help them, they can talk about it.

To give students the space to talk about their process, I, as the teacher, have to shut the fuck up. Improv shouldn’t be a lecture class; it’s not the Jimmy Carrane Show. Sometimes my students get frustrated with me because I don’t give more direct feedback, but I do that so that I empower the rest of the group to speak and I am not the dominate voice.

Yes, I am the authority in the room, but I am not God. My classes are a collaboration. When students have a question, I turn it back to the class. The answer is in the room, and the answer does not have to come out of my mouth. By doing this, students become more comfortable speaking their process.

Remember, no matter what guidelines you set in class, things will come up: People will be triggered, boundaries will be pushed. You cannot teach improv without this happening. How you handle it separates the good teachers from the great ones.

Also, know that each class is different, just like each person is different, and what makes one person uncomfortable may not phase another. It is not black and white. It is art, and the last I checked, art is still pretty subjective.

More than ever, teachers need to be present. We need to be tuned in to our students. When something happens in class that may be sensitive, it’s our job to make sure it gets talked about. You’d be amazed when issues get discussed in the moment how often they resolve themselves.

Jay Sukow: This is a great question and comes at a time long overdue. We need to change. Change is usually met with resistance, but leads to better outcomes. As improvisers, we embrace change, so working together, we can make this happen. There can be a difference between being uncomfortable and harassed. A student feeling uncomfortable because they don’t like being in front of people is different than a student being uncomfortable because they keep getting inappropriately touched. You must be aware of both. Look, there is no place for harassment in class. Period. It’s all about safety, support and the joy of play.

Here are my suggestions for dealing with uncomfortable situations in improv class.

  1. AWARENESS. Be aware from the first second of the first class all the way until the last second of the class. You must emphasize a safe and supportive environment over everything else. And keep reinforcing it. Look in people’s eyes. Become an expert in reading body language. You’ll see signs. People tell you with their eyes they’re uncomfortable. You’ll see them physically recoil. Certain people will get up for a scene and no one will join them. These are all signs.
  1. ADDRESS. Address inappropriate behavior the first time it happens in class — don’t wait to see if things will change. Stop the action and take the opportunity to have a discussion with the class. I’ve had classes where men referred to women in the scene as the name “woman.” Or touch someone who isn’t open to being touched. Or force a sexual situation. Or call someone an asshole, bitch or even worse. Of call someone of color a stereotypical name. The moment it happens, I’ll either say “No” or “Make another choice” or stop the scene immediately. I’ll ask that person if they understood why I did what I did. You might have to have difficult one-on-one conversations with the offenders. “Why are you censoring me?” “I don’t see anything wrong with it.” “Everyone else is fine with it.” “What, people can’t take a joke?” “My character thought…” or “But her character was playing a bitch.” Instead of arguing, tell them, “I don’t want to see it in my class.” I’ll also ask the class to help me explain why it was inappropriate. If everyone in the class thought there was nothing wrong with the inappropriate action, I say I don’t want to see it in my class. I guarantee you that there are people too afraid to speak up about their discomfort.
  1. ACTION. Check with the class from time to time and ask them. Tell them that you are always available outside of class to talk. Educate yourself; talk to people of color, women, people of different sexual orientations, and different ages about what harassment they’ve been subjected to in class or shows. You’d be surprised. And the answer is not to defend action. The answer is to listen with empathy and a nonjudgmental attitude. On my Today Improv blog, I’ve had several guest posts about this very topic. There are also great Facebook pages like Co-Ed Forum regarding harassment and discrimination within improv to help. Create a safe environment and you will see incredible things.

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Recently, I read a wonderful article by Madeline Wolfson about award-winning playwright, actor, and sometimes improviser Tracy Letts. In it, he gave 10 pieces advice on how to live a more creative life. I liked it so much, I have included the link.

Now, I’m no Tracy Letts, but I like to think I’m a pretty creative guy. So after reading his list, I was inspired to come up with my own list of five things that make me more creative.

  1. Talk to yourself
    There are two things that I really enjoy while driving a car: one is picking my nose, and the other is talking to myself. Picking my nose has nothing to with my creativity, but talking to myself does. In fact, I talk to myself on a daily basis. I cannot think of a better place to work on characters, or an acceptance speech for winning an Emmy or being interviewed by Howard Stern than when I’m alone in the car.
  2. Go on a walk
    My brain seems to just flow when I am out there walking in the fresh air. It is even better when I can find the time to walk in nature. I have also found that taking a walk is another great place to talk to myself (see the pattern?). Although being outside helps me the most, I’ve found doing anything physical – dancing, working out at the gym, etc. -- can get my brain going.Sometimes in class when I see a student stuck on stage and they can't get the words out during an improv scene, I will ask them to move their body, and when they do the dialogue comes out like water out of a fire hose.
  3. Take a shower or a bath
    I can’t explain this one, but it’s been amazing how many great ideas have come to me by taking a hot shower or sitting in the warm water of the bath tub. They just do. I don't need to over explain this one, it’s pretty simple.
  4. Meditate
    Each morning, I meditate for 15 to 20 minutes, and I can’t tell you how important this is to my creative process. It not only clears my mind before I start the day, but it also reminds me to listen. Creativity is as much about expressing your own ideas as it is about listening to your muse, or other people, or the silence, and meditating makes me more open to doing all three.
  5. Bounce ideas off other people
    Creativity does not happen in a vacuum. I need other people for inspiration. So whether I’m reaching out to another person whom I respect for feedback, or I’m asking my wife, Lauren, to be an audience to see where the jokes land, I walk away with ideas to make my work better and to improve my confidence. Find safe, supportive people whom you respect to bounce ideas off of.

Do you have any other ideas for ways you can boost your creativity? Share them in the comments below.

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A lot more people are teaching improv these days than ever before. I could not be more excited about how many people are going into this amazing profession, and I also know that there aren’t many places where you can get advice on how to be a good improv teacher.

So Jay Sukow, a former improv teacher at Second City who now is teaching his own classes in Los Angeles, and I decided we wanted to share with you a few of our favorite tips that we have found over the years that have made us better improv teachers.

In the months to come we hope to answer your questions about teaching improv, so if you have any questions for us please feel free to e-mail me at jimmy@jimmycarrane.com. Enjoy.

  1. Improvise Along With The Class
    If you are teaching improvisation, you might want to think about using some of it in your classroom. If your students are pulling you in a different direction than what you had planned to teach, follow them, just like you do with your partner in an improv scene. Your lesson plan is not as important as what is going on in the moment. Sound familiar? -- JC
  2. Go With the Flow
    Over prepare, then throw your lesson plan out the window and hear what the students want to do. Go with the flow. Be open for playing a game or a scene differently than what you're used to. Treat the mistakes as gifts. -- JS
  3. Warm-Up Games Matter
    Today, people give short shift to warm-up games. They think they are stupid or unimportant. I disagree. The warm-up game portion of the class is the best time to evaluate the energy of the class. Are the students tired? Are they overly talkative? Are they tentative? Reading their energy is a great first step in connecting with your students so you can guide them where they need to go in the rest of that day’s class. -- JC
  4. Be Professional
    ​Show up early. Arrange the room as you'd like it. Want chairs in a circle? Put them in a circle. Want a row of chairs? Cool, do that. And leave the room cleaner than you found it. Be excited to be teaching the greatest life skill ever: improvisation. Your attitude sets the tone, so if you're not excited, why should anyone else be? Being a professional also means not taking anything personally, whether a student thinks you have nothing to offer and this class is a waste of their time or they think you're the greatest teacher they've ever had. -- JS
  5. The Answers Are In The Group
    One of the most frequently asked questions I get after class is “What do you think I need to work on?” I encourage students who ask me that to bring that question into the next class. Again, this is a concept I learned in improv: By collaborating we will come up with something better than if it’s just me doing it alone. By bringing the entire class into the discussion, the answer we come up with together is always 84% better than if it’s just me trying play the expert. -- JC
  1. Create a Safe Space
    ALWAYS maintain a safe environment that is conducive to learning and taking risks. Respect that people have different issues with personal space and with others invading that space. ​Don't be afraid to call out inappropriate behavior -- especially sexist, racist, ageist, homophobic, and stereotypical behaviors -- that's your job. Improv is all inclusive. You have to protect the group and the individuals within it. Also, people have food allergies and drinks spill, so I ask people not to bring in food or drink, unless it's water. -- JS

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I first met Paul Normandin in an workshop I was teaching at the Oklahoma Improv Festival, and months later I got to work with him again in Austin at the Out of Bounds Comedy Festival. I always like seeing him. He's warm and friendly, and he is always a good reminder about how big the improv community really is.

I recently saw Paul again when I was in Austin, TX, to teach at The Institution Theater, and he told me about this wonderful event called Free Hugs Day that he does each year and how improv had inspired him to do it. I asked him if he would be willing to tell his story, and here it is. Enjoy!

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As I was standing on the corner of 6th Street and Congress Avenue in downtown Austin at 9 a.m. on Dec. 27, 2011 holding a sign that read “Free Hugs,” I was thinking my idea was pretty crazy. It was a brisk 40 degrees and windy. I was in the shadow of tall buildings and sunrise had passed, but the heat was not finding my double socked feet, and I was shivering. I may have been dressed in a nice suit and tie, but they did little to stave off the cold. My friend, Gloria, gave me a hug, and I smiled when she left to get my coat from the car.

So why was I here?

Well, in 2010, I started taking improv classes from Andy Crouch at the Hideout Theatre in downtown Austin, not far from where I was standing that morning. That same month, my wife, Victoria, and I had institutionalized our adult child in far off Michigan. I needed to do something to help me cope, or to at least distract me from that. And when I asked myself, “What could drag my focus away from everything?,” the thought of standing on a stage without any script topped the list.

I was 48 years old when I came to improv. I did not want to get on Saturday Night Live or be the next Jay Leno. I just wanted to try to find something more challenging than raising a mentally ill child. I failed.

But I did find improv and all the people that go with that! I found best friends, “Yes, And…,” and a community of people who encourage and support each other. I had been taking classes for about 15 months, and I was at a bar after one of those classes with some of my best friends. (I don’t qualify the term “best friend” with “from improv” anymore). The conversation turned to scenes and formats and crazy ideas we have. Without thinking, I mentioned my crazy dream of standing on a street corner with a sign that read Free Hugs. I said I wanted to do it as a social experiment, but also because people are just too afraid of each other.

Before I could qualify how silly this idea was and how I could never muster the courage to do it, someone said, “That’s a cool idea.” People at the table recommended where I could stand, what I could wear, and what I could say. They projected how many people might hug me and how I could make the signs so they would last the whole time in any weather. Gloria Rabil Bankler said, “If you do it, I will be the first one to give you a hug.” She agreed this was crazy, but...

Friends started talking about joining me for an hour or so. People offered to bring the huggers food. Before I knew what had happened, an event sprung to life around me. I had been training for 15 months to say “Yes, and,” so I did. Thank goodness for Facebook and the ease with which you can make an event.

I have worked as a project management professional for most of my life. I have led big efforts to make big changes, but never for my own purposes. I bring enthusiasm to the projects I work on, but this event had a mind (and life) of its own. Encouragement and enthusiasm came from everywhere.

Back to the street corner. Before I knew it, it was 11 a.m. The light rain had stopped and Ryan Hill, Bob Olmstead and Allison Asher showed up at 6th and Congress. It was warming up and the hugs were plentiful. That moment remains etched in my soul. I had said something in a bar three months earlier and now it was happening because my friends all said “Yes, and…” to my crazy idea.

Since that day, we have continued to hold a Free Hugs Day in Austin every year, and we have steadily grown in participants.

The question “Why are you doing this?” is often quickly followed by, “What church are you with?”

But their questions are always answered with an enthusiastic response. We either say something like, “We want to make people feel less afraid of each other, and this event is not affiliated with any organization,” or “No church, and who doesn’t need more hugs in their lives?”

I say “no church,” but really I guess this event has its roots in the followers of Keith Johnstone and Del Close, because their followers trained me and my friends, so I guess that makes us disciples of the Church of Improv. Too much?

Over the first five years, I learned that Jan. 21 is International Free Hug Day. So naturally, I changed the date of the Austin event to align with that date. Thanks to my friend, Tim Coyle, I have a flag that flew over the Texas Capitol on Jan. 21, 2015. I have a letter that came with it saying why the State House of Representatives gave me the flag. I also have a proclamation from the City of Austin signed by the Mayor and City Council saying nice things about me and Austin Free Hug Day, which was all delivered with speeches and such in the guise of an improv show on stage at the Hideout Theatre, thanks to Roy Janik, the artistic director there. I cried a lot and someone filmed the whole damn thing!

As I finish this blog, it is 12:03 a.m. on Jan. 21, 2016. In less than nine hours, I will be on the street for the sixth annual Austin Free Hug Day. I will be giving out hugs with my friends and saying funny things to those passing by in hopes they are not so afraid to say yes and trust us with a hug.

Thanks, Jimmy, for giving me the opportunity to share my story about how improv and the Austin improv community gave me courage, encouragement and a tacit agreement to try to change the world, one hug at a time.

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At the end of every Improv Nerd podcast, I ask the guest, “What is one piece of advice you would give someone starting out in improv today?” Often when I go out of town to teach a workshop, a very smart student who listens to the podcast will ask me the same question. My answer is usually pretty rambling, because I am pretty rambling, even though I have rehearsed what I’m going to say in the car 100 times.

So today, I decided to share with you what my one piece of advice is. And to keep with the theme of "rambling," my answer is actually in three parts.

  1. Be Kind to Everyone
    Yes, you have heard it a million times, but nobody has told you why. So why do we have to be kind or nice to everyone in improv? For pure selfish reasons. Those people you judged and thought they had no talent and sucked may surprise you and either get great or eventually get a job as a producer, director, writer, or casting agent and will be in a position to help further your career. That is, if you were smart enough to be kind them and kept your mouth shut.
  1. Get Outside Help
    The opportunities I have blown are legendary because I was so messed up, and had no outside help. I was trying to make all my decisions myself. Who knows where I would be today had a gotten some good professional help along the way? When I was 30, I had an audition for SNL. They were going to fly me out there and put me up in hotel. And the Monday that I was supposed to leave, I walked into my agent’s office and said, "I don't do sketch." Needless to say, I never got on the plane. Left to your own devices these are the kind decisions you can make -- not very good ones.

    If that was the only opportunity I fucked up, that would be enough, but I once made a list of all of the stupid decisions I made or opportunities I turned down, and it was at least 74 things that I said no to when I could have said yes. So if you are getting in your own way, for God’s sake get into therapy, a support group, a 12-program, whatever. Don't rely on improv to solve all your emotional needs, because it won't.

  1. Always Be Learning
    There's a popular acronym in sales and that is ABC: Always Be Closing. In improv, the arts, and yes, in life, it’s ABL: Always Be Learning. I have wasted too much time wanting to be the funniest or wanting to be the best or wanting to be perfect at the expense of learning. Any time I approach a job, or a show, or a class I’m teaching or an interview I’m conducting with the attitude that I’m just learning, I am so much better off. And remember, just because you are great at improv does not mean you are going to be a great screen writer or a great on-camera actor. If that is what you want to be, then put yourself in position to humble yourself and learn those skills. A class is always a good place to start.

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Last year we saw a slew of new books on improvisation come out, and I wanted to share with you four of them that I especially liked. As you know, typically I write this blog a couple weeks before Christmas so you can ask for them from Santa, but with Lauren pregnant and the chaos of the holidays, I could not get my shit together in time. Plus, these books are not that expensive, so if you have to buy them for yourself, I’m pretty sure you can afford it.

  1. Improvisation at the Speed of Life: The TJ and Dave Book

by T.J. Jagodowski, David Pasquesi and Pam Victor
$17.31 on Amazon

TJ and Dave is one of my all-time favorite improv shows. The patience. The intelligence. The honesty. It's such a beautiful show to watch. And this book is a great window into how they do what they do. l love reading books about people's process from people whom I love and respect. And this book does just that. We get inside the minds of TJ and Dave. They share their way of improvising, their philosophy and approach. What I appreciated most in this book, considering all that they have accomplished, is the humble tone they take in their writing. They're simply telling us what works for them in their show. Plus, this book makes you look at the basic concepts of improvisation (Yes and..., Listening, Honesty, Not Being Funny) differently, which is always helpful if you want to keep growing in this art form. I especially like the part where Pam Victor interviews them, giving us even more access to their brilliant minds. This book is dense and took me time to process. I found it as inspiring as watching a TJ and Dave show!

  1. Behind the Scenes: Improvising Long Form
    by Mick Napier
    $15 at The Annoyance Theater in Chicago or $17.96 on Amazon

In Mick's first book, Improvise: Scene from the Inside Out, he reinvents how to improvise a scene. In his latest book, he does the same thing with long form. Behind the Scenes: Improvising Long Form is written by a more mature Mick, but that doesn’t stop him from blowing your mind, and he does it in a very logical way, laying his points out clearly and doing a terrific job of explaining the reasons behind his theories. He backs up each of his points with real life examples from his years of experience as a director and performer at The Annoyance and The Second City.

This book gives the reader practical exercises to address these issues that are simple and doable. Of course, he speaks honestly and challenges old ideas about long form, confronting the reader on issues that improvisers rarely like to admit. For example, Mick says it's okay to get laughs in long form, and he gives ideas on how to make long form more accessible to a larger audience and as well as on the importance of giving a proper introduction when performing long-form to non-improv audiences. So brilliant, so simple, yet if you have been improvising for a fair amount of time, you may have over looked it. I appreciate that Mick comes from a director's eye so he locates things that a player may not see but doesn’t cram his ideas down your throat. You get the sense he’s letting the reader come to his own conclusions. It’s clear he's put a lot of time and thought and passion into this book, and it shows.

  1. The Triangle of the Scene: A simple, practical, powerful method for approaching improvisation
    by Paul Vailiancourt
    $9.99 on Amazon

Well-respected improviser and teacher at iO West Paul Vailiancourt is passionate about improv and it shows in his book, The Triangle of the Scene: A simple, practical, powerful method for approaching improvisation. Just like Paul himself, this book oozes enthusiasm for improv. When reading this book, it’s clear Paul devoted himself to this art form and he wants to generously give the reader a set of practical tools to further their long form improvisation.

What I loved was right from the start, he emphasis the importance of "relationship scenes" and then lays out a method to help you make them even stronger. Paul’s methods are very easy to follow and super helpful to any level of improviser. He's gone to great length to make his advice practical and easy to understand for the reader. He's also has included embedded videos to help the reader apply the lessons in the book. The examples he gives are clear and concise and do a great job of helping the reader understand the point that he’s trying to make. I found Paul's approach to be very thoughtful, easy to absorb and each chapter builds off the next, like a great improv class taught by a great improv teacher.

4.      Improv ABC: The A-Z Guide to Kicking Butt At Improvisation
by Ben Noble
$9.99 on Amazon

The heart of improv is to have fun, and in Ben Nobles's book, The Improv ABC: The A-Z Guide to Kicking Butt at Improvisation, he has done just that, with his snappy graphics and easy-to-apply lessons. It truly is a guide, something you can keep going back to when you need inspiration or a quick tune up. What I loved, and it may be almost over looked, is the excellent job Ben does compiling all the schools of improv under one roof and making their approaches so practical and easy to follow. Just like the other books on the list, Ben’s not trying to sell you on the one way to improvise. Instead, he's included everyone’s approach and he lets the reader pick and choose what works for them. Plus, the quotes, graphics and art direction make reading this book such a good time that you’ll forget you are actually reading. I would dare say that it's almost as fun as improvising.

Bonus Pick

The Inner Game of Improv: 5 Steps to Getting Bigger in Your Improv Career
by Jimmy Carrane
$3.99 on JimmyCarrane.com or Amazon

I feel cheesy mentioning my own book, but hey, what do expect from a guy who writes a book about having a more successful career as improviser? In this book, I lay out the five things that often prevent improvisers from having a bigger career: perfectionism, resentments (and expectations), low self-esteem, playing small, and not taking care of yourself. I try to give you practical tools to help you recognize and let go of each of these character traits so you can get more opportunities and make the most out of your improv career.

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